You can't rely on anyone unless you're useful.

who can we rely on when we are alive?

as the saying goes, "relying on mountains will fall, water will flow; temples and fairs will collapse, gods will run."

it is normal to be alone on the road of growing up. No matter they are relatives or friends, they all have their own responsibilities to carry and their own way to go, so it is impossible to give you a hand in everything.

Don't always count on others in the face of difficulties. Only rely on their own, can really resist the long life of the snow sword.

01

Don't overestimate your relationship with anyone

there was a hot topic: "what do you think of your place in the hearts of others?"

the following answer is very piercing:

most of the time, we always think that we can get the same sincerity by treating others with sincerity, but we do not realize that it is just our own wishful thinking.

in the TV series "I am Yu Huanshui", the male master Yu Huanshui is a very righteous person. His good brother needed money, and without saying a word, he borrowed 130000 of the money left by his dead mother.

at that time, Yu Huanshui never doubted the friendship between brothers.

but when he was in a hurry to use the money and asked for it kindly, his former brother put him off again and again, not only fooling him around, but also vanishing from the earth.

later, Yu Huanshui ran into a "good friend" in the street and asked, "Why did you lie to me?" How could you do this to your friends? "

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the other party did not feel the slightest apology, and even said complacently:

reality dealt Yu Huanshui a blow on the head.

in this life, no emotion is immutable, no relationship is enduring.

whether love or friendship, please open your eyes and don't always give your heart away easily.

at any time, you should first take care of yourself and live your own life.

Please look down on people, enjoy the impermanence of the world, know how to be close and close, love and hate at will, and leave their kindness and trust to those who are more worthy of it.

02

rely on yourself, is the king

have seen such a story.

A man was hiding from the rain under the eaves when he happened to meet a Zen master passing by with an umbrella.

so he stopped the Zen master and said, "it is said that the Dharma is all about universal sentient beings. How about you give me a ride today?"

the Zen master replied, "you are under the eaves, I am in the rain, I have rain here, and the eaves have no rain, so there is no need for me to spend you."

after listening, the man immediately walked out of the eaves and stood in the rain: "now that I'm in the rain, you should be able to spend me, right?"

the Zen master said:

"you and I are both in the rain. I am not caught in the rain because I have an umbrella, while you are in the rain because you do not have an umbrella."

so, it's not me, it's me. If you want a degree, please don't look for me, you have to find your own umbrella. "

when the man heard this, he said angrily, "I told you if you didn't want to do it, why beat around the bush?"

after hearing this, the Zen master said calmly, "if you want to stay out of the rain, you must learn to find an umbrella. You always want to rely on others. If you refuse to work hard, you will only lose yourself in the end."

time goes on, and things are complicated. Instead of expecting others, it is better to rely on yourself.

there is a long road in life, and everyone has his own way to go and his own difficulties to cross.

Don't expect others to clean up your mess. In the adult world, relationships between people are very fragile.

even if others can help you for a while, they can't help you for a lifetime. You have to conquer your life lessons by yourself.

only by relying on yourself can you really grow up and find the eggs and surprises that fate has prepared for you.

Don't be intimidated by difficulties, don't be bound by the past, don't set limits on yourself, when you keep moving forward bravely, you can meet a better self.

03

instead of counting on others, it is better to invest in yourself

as the writer Wang Guozhen said, "opportunities, strive for by yourself, destiny, depend on yourself."

in this life, the most important person you have is yourself.

my friend Yaya set up a small fashion media studio with several like-minded friends after graduation.

at first, they advertised for their clients. They visited every company according to their business cards, but the customers were still unimpressed.

this has been going on for months. Yaya did not understand why she worked so hard, but never met her own Bole.

later, a senior in the industry really disliked it and gave Yaya a sentence:

"it is better to practice yourself than to count on others."

Yaya finally began to delve into the live broadcast plan with her team partners, analyze fan attributes, and spent a lot of time and energy writing scripts, adjusting lights, and evaluating products.

nowadays, their lists are more visible to the naked eye.

We always encounter the time when we are slapped by life and feel that our luck is simply bad, and then we are confused, and have a deep sense of powerlessness about everything.

ask life, "Why am I the one who bears this?", but after going around in a circle, you will understand that the cards of luck and misfortune are always in your hands.

instead of expecting help from dignitaries, it is better to spend more time on yourself, constantly invest in yourself and enrich yourself.

as long as you are willing to learn, explore, and embrace new knowledge, you will certainly be able to start your own extraordinary life.

maybe the process of shaping yourself will be hard, but in the future, you will be grateful for trying to be better now.Oneself.

04

there is still a long way to go. You have to carry your ups and downs on your own. Don't count on others and don't pay your heart wrong.

Please remember: you can only control the life you want, and you can only manage the happiness you want.

May you cherish your life, be responsible for yourself, and look forward to the future. Although the world is extremely difficult, but the light is ahead, please move forward bravely!

encourage it.