The simplest happiness (deep good article)

the world is disturbed one after another. once you get caught up in it and don't realize it, you will slowly live a complex and tired life.

how can a person not be tired if he has been carrying a heavy load for a long time?

Mr. Zhu Guangqian said: "the first thing in life is life."

in a complicated world, living simply is the best way to survive.

01

A child said to his mother, "Mom, you look so beautiful today."

the mother asked, "Why?"

the child said, "because the mother is not angry today."

it's easy to be beautiful, as long as you don't get angry.

most of the time, we are angry that we see the whole through a small part. It is originally a small thing, but we have to enlarge it. When we find a mouse at home, why set fire to the whole house?

and every blow we bring from anger is bound to fall on ourselves in the end.

being angry for one hour is equivalent to staying up late for 6 hours.

Adult's face, every time it gets angry, the trace on the face will be deep for a time.

Lin Zexu said: if I am wrong, why should I be angry? if someone else is wrong, why should I be angry?

if you want not to be angry, it's very simple. As long as you let go of other people's mistakes, you can free your heart.

May our faces, which are born from the heart, look better and better.

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02

there is a younger brother who works as an apprentice in a bicycle shop.

someone sent me a broken bike. My younger brother not only repaired it, but also polished it as beautiful as new. The other apprentices laughed at him for being superfluous.

the day after the owner took the bike back, my younger brother was dug up to work in his company.

it's easy to get ahead, just work hard.

diligence is a kind of advanced self-discipline.

Life will get back the things that I didn't bother to do for the sake of pleasure.

lazy to study hard, low academic qualifications, difficult to find a job; lazy to exercise, the body fat, "three high" entangled; lazy to share housework leads to family disharmony; too lazy to visit parents, until the parents are old, the son wants to support but not wait …...

as Zweig said:

"at that time, I was too young to know that all the gifts given by fate had already been secretly priced."

Twenty years later, when you come to the end of your life, both good and bad are cumulative results.

A successful life is very simple. As long as you learn to control yourself, you can control your life.

be diligent and be the master of fate no matter how old you are.

03

there was a rancher who told his child to work hard on the ranch every day. His friend said to him, "you don't need to make the child work so hard, the crops will grow well."

the rancher replied, "I'm not cultivating crops, I'm raising my children."

it turns out that it's easy to raise a child, just let him suffer a little.

there is one thing that is absolutely indispensable in children's education: education to endure hardships.

Last year, People's Daily angrily rebuked college students who were still sleeping: if you don't lose your job, it's hard to make sense.

A child who grows up in a honeypot will never grow up.

enrichment is never spoiled and compromised, because no ability is born out of ease, comfort and pleasure, and happiness and fulfillment are always born out of pain.

Real education, do not need to do too much, simple, let the child out of his own circle of protection.

Let him feel the pain and the real hardship of life, so that he can grow up and be on his own in the future.

04

when a chicken broke its shell, a tortoise happened to pass by, and the chick has lived with its eggshell on its back ever since!

in fact, it's easy to get rid of the heavy load, just give up stubbornness.

Jack Ma once said: "the only constant thing in the world is that everything is changing all the time."

everything is changing all the time. If you still do things stubbornly, do not understand flexibility, and do not look back after hitting the south wall, how can you succeed?

everything has its pros and cons, right and wrong, odd and even, blessing and misfortune.

everyone needs to constantly adjust their strategies and actions according to the situation.

do not stick to conventions, do not stick to one style, reduce complexity to simplicity, and let go of stubbornness, so that you can live up to the past and move forward without fear.

only in this way can there be a new situation and new atmosphere in life and career.

05

there is a gold panning team walking in the desert. Everyone is walking heavily and painfully, and only one person is walking happily.

others ask

"Why are you so comfortable?" "because I bring the least things," he said with a smile. "

it turns out that happiness is very simple, just don't haggle over it.

Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "Inner self-cultivation is a sublimation of the soul."

Life is not easy, so why bother.

most people are sad in life, probably because they think too much and care too much, so they worry too much and worry too much.

living is actually very simple, don't make it difficult for yourself, there is no need to worry too much about many things.

what should be left will not go, what should be left will not stay, as if nothing has happened, is the best state of mind.

the writer Ma de said: "the world seems to be surrounded by complexity, all kinds of people, mud and sand."

essentially, it's your own world. If you are clear, the world will be clean. If you are simple, the world will not be complicated. "

A happy life is always simple.

if you don't want much, there will be no distress in life. If you don't think much, your life won't be too complicated.

live a life with a simple state of mind. No matter what fate life gives you, you will feel happy and happy.