Stay away from those who are smart but not kind.

/June 2022

there is a saying in Daojing:

the way of dealing with others is not as smart as kindness.

some people are smart, but not kind. Such people must not get to know each other deeply.


character is the best feng shui

Cao Cao once said: troubled times are important but not moral.

he thinks that a person's ability is far more important than character.

but when he captured Lv Bu, he remembered that this man had betrayed his master three times and still killed him.

Yang Xiu is famous for his intelligence, knowledge and memory, and outstanding ability, and Cao Cao showed no mercy.

ability is never greater than character.

A smart and capable man can only be proud for a while, but he can only survive if he is kind and reliable.

in the Qing Dynasty, there was a man named Jin Anqing, who was good at economy and financial management.

but the heart is not correct, many times corruption.

he set up a bureau to rescue Lin Zexu, became an aide to Lin Zexu, and was soon sent out of the country by Lin Zexuli.

he turned to Zeng Guofan, who rejected him seven times in a row. Although I saw him later, I still refused to use it.

some people find it strange and ask why. Lao once said, "these people are like ghosts and gods, so they can stay away."

character is a person's best pass.

character can make up for the lack of ability, but ability can never make up for the lack of character.

A man has bad intentions and goes through some evil ways. No one is willing to trust him, and he will not achieve anything after all.


kindness is the greatest cleverness

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Human calculation is not as good as heavenly calculation.

the more you calculate, the more you lose; the less you care, the less you lose.

when Yu Minhong was a student at Peking University, he cleaned the dormitory every day, helped the whole dormitory to fetch water and meals, and never complained.

others said he was stupid, but he said: they are all classmates, so why bother so much?

when he founded New Oriental, his classmates came back from abroad to help him.

the rich give money and make a strong contribution.

they said: even if you have been fetching water for us for four years, we are sure that you will not let us suffer.

with the support of my classmates, New Oriental is getting bigger and bigger, and God has lived up to this kind young man after all.

the ancients said: the heavy sword has no edge, but the skill is not good enough.

those who haggle over everything accomplish nothing, and only those who are kind and generous can get what they want.

it is a blessing to suffer losses, and only those who do not care can gain trust and maintain kindness, which is the greatest wisdom.


people are kind, but heaven does not deceive

the Book of changes says that people are virtuous and carry things.

A person can bear his responsibilities and blessings only if he is lenient and kind.

God will not ignore such a person, let alone treat such a person badly.

in the Eastern Han Dynasty, the emperor gave his minister a flock of live sheep on New year's Eve.

but sheep are not the same size, fat and thin, and there has been disagreement on how to divide the sheep.

some people say draw lots, others say kill meat sharing.

at this time, Zhen Yu stood up and said, "Don't worry about so much, just take one."

stop and lead the youngest one away.

everyone followed suit, and the sheep were soon divided up.

when the emperor knew about this, he took a different look at Zhen Yu and soon promoted him to dean of Tai College.

Wang Xifeng in A Dream of Red Mansions loaned money and forced you to die.

and her leniency to Grandma Liu saved her daughter's life after the defeat of the Jia family.

people are kind, but heaven does not deceive.

God sees the calculation and generosity of a person.

those who like to calculate will eventually pay the price for their shrewdness.

those who are down-to-earth and kind can be blessed by God sooner or later.