"never mind, some people are not important at all."
writer Yi Shu said:
A person will meet a lot of people in his life, but not all of them are worth paying attention to.
some people care too much, it is a waste of time; some things to see too much, it is a waste of energy.
only by leaving your enthusiasm to those who are worth it, your heart will not be wasted.
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you don't have to let everyone like you
there is a saying:
in this world, no matter how good you are, there will be people who hate you.
if you can't satisfy everyone, you don't have to worry about everyone.
in the exhibition, a beautiful painting was framed in a glass frame.
the painting was painted by a student. He wanted to be praised by more people, so he wrote on the introduction of the work:
at the end of the day, when the students went to check and accept it, they found that the painting was almost all marked.
this made him very depressed. When his teacher saw it, he comforted him and said:
the next day, when the students went to check and accept it, they found that the areas that were marked badly yesterday were all circled today.
the students were puzzled, so they asked the teacher.
his teacher said:
the students suddenly became more confident and leisurely when they painted from then on. When you are alive, no matter how well you do, there will be accusations.
the more you care about those people, the more uncomfortable you will be.
writer Su Qin said: "you don't have to put too many people into your life."
not everyone is worth paying attention to.
some people are passers-by after all, and their opinions will only disturb your mind.
instead of caring about people who are not worth it, it is better to live your life at ease.
care about people who are good to themselves, listen to useful words, and do better things, so that they will not fail themselves.
never mind, some people are not important at all
on the way of life, we will inevitably meet people who are not good to us.
they will not only consume us, but also hurt us.
if we argue with them for a long time, we will lose more and more.
in the face of such people, it is wise to ignore them and stop losses in time.
when Zeng Guofan first joined the Imperial Academy, the father of his boss, Zhao Kui, came to Beijing.
in order to amass money, Zhao Jie invited everyone of the Hanlin Academy to dinner under his post.
at that time, Zeng Guofan had just become an official, his salary was very small, and his days were very tight.
moreover, he was so disgusted with such a thing that he didn't go to dinner, thus offending Zhao Jing.
so in his work, he was targeted everywhere by Zhao Kui.
on one occasion, Zeng Guofan was unable to work because of an old illness, so he asked Zhao Kui for leave to recuperate.
Zhao Zhi deliberately made it difficult for him, not only did not let him rest, but also asked him to deal with some tedious and tiring work.
Zeng Guofan had no choice but to continue to work with illness.
A colleague who couldn't bear to watch said, "Zhao Jing is doing this on purpose. Aren't you angry?"
Zeng Guofan shook his head and said, "it's not worth arguing with him."
later, Zeng Guofan performed meritorious service and his official position was promoted several times, while Zhao Kui was still in that position. People often say:
Don't worry about meeting people who are bad to you. The more you worry about it, the more annoyance you will get.
the so-called clear people are self-clearing, and those who are turbid are self-turbid. Even if you do it right, you don't have to get angry with them.
because being angry with them will only let them get away with it, and then get angry with their own health, and the best revenge for those people is to ignore them and not to quarrel with them.
if you don't take him seriously, you won't be angry with yourself.
some people, when they see it clearly, feel lighter
have seen such a video: the protagonist of the video is a housewife in her fifties.
after she got married, she took care of all the big and small things in the family.
the husband is gluttonous and lazy, does not have a job, and the expenses of the family depend on her painstaking efforts.
for decades, she has taken great pains to keep a family in good order.
this year, she was diagnosed with a malignant tumor. It is very unfortunate to suffer from a bad disease.
what chills her more is that no one in the family cares about her health.
when she came back from the hospital, she found that she was not greeted by the warmth of her family, but by her indifference as air.
my mother-in-law even said to the outsider, ignore her, she is pretending to be ill! And then keep urging her to do the housework.
at that moment, her heart was completely cold.
from then on, she no longer pursued the past, but chose to let herself go.
she learned that the most important thing in a person's life should be herself, not a selfish husband and a xenophobic mother-in-law.
so she chose to divorce. Under the video comments, someone asked her, don't you care?
she replied: "I don't want to consume myself anymore."
in the face of such a person, to worry about is to consume and torture yourself, it is better to let yourself go.
there is a poem that says, "I turned my heart to the moon, but the moon shines on the ditch."
I treat you with kindness, but you are indifferent and ungrateful.
so, for those who are not important, you don't have to care, because it's not worth it.
people who don't care about you, no matter what you do, they won't see it.
it's not easy for people to be alive. Don't let those who don't matter consume themselves.
it is most worthwhile to leave your heart to the people who are really important.
people come and go on the road of lifeBut not everyone is worth stopping.
meet some people, even if they are wrong, you don't have to worry about it, because they are not important at all.
Nietzsche said in the other side of good and Evil:
"if you struggle with an evil dragon for too long, he himself becomes an evil dragon."
gaze into the abyss for too long, and the abyss will return to gaze. "
when you meet someone who consumes you, just ignore it, just stay away, and don't worry about it.
because they don't matter in your life.
Life is short and time is limited.
May your heart and care be given to those who really care about you.