10 enlightening truths of life
Socrates said, "the only thing I know is that I know nothing."
We have a lot of things beyond our knowledge, and we need to learn more because we are ignorant.
here are 10 life truths to help you improve your awareness and avoid detours in life.
there is nothing in the world that is given for nothing
feelings need to be managed attentively, money needs to be earned, and trust needs time to test.
what you want, you have to give. No one has an obligation to be kind to you except your parents.
as the saying goes, "all the gifts of fate have already been secretly priced."
Don't think that you can easily achieve anything. Everything in life requires effort and price.
even if you can easily get something in life, you will eventually have to pay the price, and the loss outweighs the gain.
networking does not lie in how many people you know
but in how many people your value can help.
Don't chase a horse. You use the time to chase a horse to recommend it. When the spring blossoms, you can attract a group of horses for you to choose.
Don't curry favor with a person, use your time without friends to improve your ability. When the time is ripe, you will have a group of friends to go with you.
the friends found by human feelings are only temporary, while those attracted by personality are long-lasting.
chatting is not necessarily because it is in tune
it is possible to reduce dimensionality
if you chat comfortably with someone, it does not mean that he is your bosom friend, it is very likely that he is just downwards compatible with you;
his EQ, knowledge, and pattern are far more than you, so he can catch what you say, and he can empathize with you.
if he speaks, you will feel very frequent with you, feel that he can talk to the bottom of your heart, don't get into it too quickly, don't think he's special.
it's possible that he's just saying ordinary things and doing what he usually does, but you haven't met anyone as good as him in your circle.
you may be one of the people he can talk to, not the only one.
knowledge and body are wealth
your behavior, your way of thinking, your pattern all come from your book knowledge and experience knowledge.
the knowledge reserve in your mind determines how far you can go.
never too old to learn.
develop the habit of long-term learning and lifelong learning, and avoid "hate less when you use books".
physical health is a priority. Take your body seriously and take good care of yourself.
eating takeout, ordering milk tea, staying up late, smoking and drinking will only make you feel good for a while.
you may not feel much when you are young, but when you get older, you will taste the bitter fruit.
Don't be too honest socially or emotionally
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people who are too honest will always give a lot, like to be soft-hearted, and do not know how to distinguish between good and bad. Being too kind is easy to be betrayed and bullied.
as the saying goes, a good man is deceived and a good horse is ridden.
when a person is too honest, others will be unscrupulous to you, call you everything, and trouble you with everything.
No matter how honest you are, you have to have a temper, and no matter how soft you are, there must be a limit.
your kindness should have some edge.
only those who are smart and kind-hearted will get more treasure and more help!
Don't overestimate your relationship with anyone
No one wants you to be better off than the one who really loves you.
people say that they hope the people around you have a good life, but the truth is: I hope you have a good life, but you don't want to be better than him.
everyone is secretly comparing their lives with those around them.
Don't easily disclose your income. If it is high, others will be jealous and low, and others will be happy.
he may not be happy when you buy a house, but if you say you want a loan to buy a house and repay it for more than ten or twenty years, they will comfort you on the surface and pretend to comfort you in appearance.