10 details, see through a person

09
/November 2022

as the ancients said: major events in the world must be done in detail.

details can be seen in character, trifles in the heart.

those seemingly inconspicuous actions often reflect the most real face of a person.

people who pay attention to details are generally not bad in character.

01

reply

in time to communicate with people, the most fear is that the message will be sent out, but the result will be lost.

reply in time is not only a courtesy, but also a responsibility.

if you can't reply in time for some reason, take the initiative to explain the reason.

there is an explanation for everything, a reason for everything, and an answer for everything.

such people are responsible.

02

have a sense of time

Mr. Lu Xun said: "Life is based on time. Wasting one's own time is tantamount to chronic suicide, and wasting other people's time is tantamount to murder."

in this fast-paced society, everyone's time is precious.

punctuality is the most basic politeness and respect for people.

such people keep their word.

03

do not take advantage

there is a saying in the Book of Rites: "it is impolite to come but not to come; it is not polite to come but not to come."

between people, they are always mutual.

Don't take the efforts of others for granted.

you don't have to rush to pay for a meal, but you can take the initiative to AA or pay back.

you shouldn't take advantage, don't take a penny.

such people have a pattern.

04

be kind to strangers

A person's attitude towards strangers represents his true character.

because we are strangers, it has nothing to do with our interests.

attitude towards stakeholders depends on IQ and EQ;

attitude towards unrelated people depends on quality and self-cultivation.

if one can be kind to strangers, he will be kind to those close to him.

such people are educated.

05

speak with a sense of proportion, and it will be easier for everyone to see through it or not to say it.

others can laugh at themselves, but you can't agree.

such people have EQ.

06

do not pry into other people's privacy

the ancients said: "do not see indecent assault, do not listen to it."

others enter passwords, take the initiative to step back and look away;

other people are on the phone, don't make any noise, let alone eavesdrop.

Don't be too curious and learn to respect other people's privacy. People like

have a sense of boundary.

07

if you don't cause trouble to others

, you should say hello in advance, don't make a "surprise attack", let alone visit the door empty-handed.

just because the guest is whatever you want, it doesn't mean you can do whatever you want.

what's more, don't treat other people's home as your own.

No matter how good the relationship is, you can't cause trouble to others.

such people know how to behave.

08

considerate people

people with good character always have other people in mind.

Don't rush to close the door when taking the elevator, wait for the person behind you.

when driving through a puddle, slow down and don't let the mud splash on the pedestrians.

the road is slippery in the snow, so leave more time for the takeout staff and don't give bad reviews easily.

it is often said that if you give people roses, there is a fragrance in your hands.

such people are kind.

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09

in his speech, he did not boast

Zeng Guofan said, "Don't talk about things that are too high."

words, like doing things, must be put into practice.

boasting cannot solve practical problems.

A person's ability depends on his own efforts, not his mouth.

if you have something to say, you don't have to brag.

such a person is the most reliable.

10

emotional stability

losing temper is an instinct, and restraining one's temper is breeding.

No matter what situation you are in, you should be the master of your emotions.

Control your emotions, the popularity will become better and better, and the days will be better and better.

such people have bearing.